I have a quick question for all you S&MA vets. Why is it in the morning it is so hard to cum during sex? Not really a horrible problem to have but when I have to be at work in an hour and time is limited I can't just bust off a quick session.

The other alternative to being late is having blue balls all day. Needless to say I have been late to work too many times. So anyway, why are the morning sex sessions different from any other time of the day?

GO pee first

2thepain wrote:
I have a quick question for all you S&MA vets. Why is it in the morning it is so hard to cum during sex? Not really a horrible problem to have but when I have to be at work in an hour and time is limited I can't just bust off a quick session.

The other alternative to being late is having blue balls all day. Needless to say I have been late to work too many times. So anyway, why are the morning sex sessions different from any other time of the day?

Not to oversimplify, but there's no good answer, cuz not everyone has a problem in the morning.

I mean, for example, I take forever if I'm standing up, regardless of what the activity is (oral or sex).

I don't think you'll get a definitive answer.

Only suggestion is 'get up earlier' ;)

In my case I attribute this to my CNS not yet been fully functional. Perhaps this is a problem for guys who are not morning persons.

KSman wrote:
In my case I attribute this to my CNS not yet been fully functional. Perhaps this is a problem for guys who are not morning persons.

The odd thing is that I actually perform better than normal in the morning. I just have a hard time reaching orgasm.

Redcarpet wrote:
GO pee first

Funny that you say to go pee first... because, for some reason, after I cum, I always have to pee really bad. What's up with that?

BoS wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
GO pee first

Funny that you say to go pee first... because, for some reason, after I cum, I always have to pee really bad. What's up with that?

x2

Are you sure it's pee, maybe you didn't finish & really are a squirter

Redcarpet wrote:
Are you sure it's pee, maybe you didn't finish & really are a squirter

Maybe he's not a she.

Didn't think he was

Redcarpet wrote:
Didn't think he was

Why so serious?

just a joke r Mak!

Redcarpet wrote:
just a joke r Mak!

Wanna see a magic trick?

I have this problem too. I have only been able to reach climax once during morning sex.

This is like, you get up and go to it sex.
Give me some time to wake up and I'm fine. Its wierd.

Makavali wrote:
BoS wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
GO pee first

Funny that you say to go pee first... because, for some reason, after I cum, I always have to pee really bad. What's up with that?

x2

x3

Makavali wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
just a joke r Mak!

Wanna see a magic trick?

Don't touch me old man. I don't know where you've been

Redcarpet wrote:
Makavali wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
just a joke r Mak!

Wanna see a magic trick?

Don't touch me old man. I don't know where you've been

I'll make this pencil disappear.

Lets put a smile on that face

x4 on the having to pee thing

I'm not at a loss as to how he made the pencil disappear.

I am at a loss as to how he made it stand up in the first place.

BoS wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
GO pee first

Funny that you say to go pee first... because, for some reason, after I cum, I always have to pee really bad. What's up with that?

Ejaculation is a mixture of sperm and and semen. When you ejaculate, the prostate gland contracts rapidly, and goes through the vas deferens tube, which causes the mixing and it (prostate gland) to swell. Your urethra, or whatever the fuck it's called, passes close by and is basically closed off by the pressure of the now swollen gland. That's why you have to wait for your dick to calm the fuck down before you can pee, regardless of how horny you are or how urgently you have to go pee.

Now the reason you might have to pee is because of pressure from this swollen gland. Just like how after fingering or fucking a woman within the first few minutes will cause her to feel like she needs to pee. I also read that the swollen gland thing is done so that the urine and semen/sperm mixture don't mix, for obvious reasons.
It's basically the same way how you can't swallow and breathe at the same time, due to the epiglottis (sp).

The body is an amazing thing.

Otep wrote:
I'm not at a loss as to how he made the pencil disappear.

I am at a loss as to how he made it stand up in the first place.

Magic. Duh.

Hi, I'm Aleksandr, the resident cockologist.

Erection is under the control of the parasympathetic nervous system, while ejaculation is under the control of the sympathetic. In the morning, when your (or at least my) sympathetic nervous system is still not up to speed, erection is very easy, but ejaculation is very hard.

Aleksandr wrote:
Hi, I'm Aleksandr, the resident cockologist.

Erection is under the control of the parasympathetic nervous system, while ejaculation is under the control of the sympathetic. In the morning, when your (or at least my) sympathetic nervous system is still not up to speed, erection is very easy, but ejaculation is very hard.

That's weird... my erection is very hard in the morning as well as the ejaculation. *bah-doom-boom-ching*

blazindave wrote:
BoS wrote:
Redcarpet wrote:
GO pee first

Funny that you say to go pee first... because, for some reason, after I cum, I always have to pee really bad. What's up with that?

Ejaculation is a mixture of sperm and and semen. When you ejaculate, the prostate gland contracts rapidly, and goes through the vas deferens tube, which causes the mixing and it (prostate gland) to swell. Your urethra, or whatever the fuck it's called, passes close by and is basically closed off by the pressure of the now swollen gland. That's why you have to wait for your dick to calm the fuck down before you can pee, regardless of how horny you are or how urgently you have to go pee.

Now the reason you might have to pee is because of pressure from this swollen gland. Just like how after fingering or fucking a woman within the first few minutes will cause her to feel like she needs to pee. I also read that the swollen gland thing is done so that the urine and semen/sperm mixture don't mix, for obvious reasons.
It's basically the same way how you can't swallow and breathe at the same time, due to the epiglottis (sp).

The body is an amazing thing.


I was going to say look at a medical layout of the teh one-eyed monster but you answered it. Seriously, though did some of you guys not get any sex ed at school? If you don't even know how your dick works I feel sorry for your women cause you must not have a clue when it comes to them.